Now that we all have had some grieving time, i think now is a good time to address thing head on.
Bob Bryar left MCR.
Okay. A big tragedy. But not the end of the world, right?
I dont know what to feel, or what to do. As i'm sure many of us don't. This is a time that we get to test our loyalty, our love, our passion. A time to carry on. As horrible as the past days' events have been, they were traumatic in the least. Not in my whole time being an MCR fan have i felt so defeated, like a part of my heart died. Two days ago, my life was good, i had a band to look after me; but now, i have a broken band. How am i supposed to deal with this? How are WE supposed to deal with this? I dont know if he will come back to us, but we can hope. We can pray things wont get worse. We can hope. There are so many of us that feel this way, but i feel us fans are farther apart than ever. When MCR toured on the Black Parade, us fans, we got hostile. We didnt want to let anyone else in on OUR band.
Even though they are ours, they arent bullet-proof.
And niether are we.
So we must stand together in this time of uncertainty and rejoice that, who knows, maybe Bob is HAPPY? We will always love him, and he knows this. Even in say, five years, if MCR is still a band and Bob decides to come back, we will welcome him with open arms and tears of JOY. I know that this whole day, i was flooded with good memories. Of how i can tell when Bob plays the drums. It sounds like him. And if you've experienced this too, you know how magical it really is. And when i watched TBPID, because i cant find my LOTMS cd, i didnt cry, even if i was so close to. I didnt cry because i KNEW this wasnt the end of MCR. Maybe that's why i bawled my eyes out when i DIDNT know. I was scared. We all were. But now, as we all had time to gather our feelings; even though i am heart-broken, im still in love with that band.
I still love them.
....but we'll hate on the new drummer, right?
..........at least for a minute? (as one tumblr-r stated)
And as another one did, whom i totally agreed with, was that maybe DEWEES, JAMES DEWEES will fill in and be their drummer, as he was for other bands in their time of need, but as i pondered this, then who will play keyboard?